To ensure everyone has a safe prom night, parents and guardians need to talk with their teens regarding prom safety.

Tips for Parents

    • Know and discuss the School code of conduct before the prom with your child.
    • Does the school code of conduct extend to off-site functions that have been approved by the school?
    • Know who your child is attending the prom with and discuss the events for pre and post prom parties with other parents.
    • Discuss the dangers of drinking and driving. New York State law mandates arrest and license revocation/suspension of any person under twenty-one driving with .02% or more Blood Alcohol Content. (One drink!)
    • Talk with your child about the dangers of club drugs, warning signs and who to notify for assistance.
    • Pre-plan and role-play answers that your child can use to get out of uncomfortable situations. (e.g., offered alcohol, getting a ride from an intoxicated driver, unwanted sexual advances, etc.)
    • Discuss guidelines and a curfew. Discuss the consequences of violating these rules.
    • Discuss travel plans, use a reputable limousine service that will not allow a person to bring, serve or introduce alcohol into the vehicle.
    • Know who is driving to the prom and who will be a passenger. Limit the number of passengers to increase safety and reduce driver distractions.
    • Know the location of post prom parties and who is sponsoring them.
    • Talk to your teenager about the serious dangers and consequences of underage drinking and driving.
    • If your childísí plans change, confirm the change with the parents of other children.
    • Remind your child that you are there for them, if they need a ride home or to an after prom affair.

Involved Parenting is the Best Prevention! Parents remain a powerful influence in fostering healthy teen development and preventing negative outcomes.

Tips for Teens

  • Alcohol is illegal for persons under the age of twenty-one underage drinking is illegal and can result in arrest, injury, or worse!
  • Donít let friendsí drink and drive.
  • Plan aheadómake sure you have a safe plan for prom night.
  • Discuss your plans with your friends; remind each other about responsible decision-making and confronting peer pressure.
  • Do not accept any drinks from someone you do not know. If you leave your drink, discard it and get a new one.
  • Do not leave your possessions unattended.
  • Learn the warning signs for alcohol poisoning and drug intoxication, contact 911 for assistance and immediate treatment.
  • Take extra money or have a responsible person available for transportation for a safe ride home or in case an emergency arises.
  • Remember to charge your cell phone and have it with you.
  • Know where you are and where you are going; keep your parents and friends informed.
  • Trust your instincts, if you feel endangered or uncomfortable, leave immediately.
  • Intoxication by alcohol or drugs can lead to poor judgment and dangerous situations.
  • Remember to contact your parents if your plans change.
  • Practice and discuss answers you can use to get out of uncomfortable situations.
  • Do not allow anyone in your car or limo that has drugs or weapons. It is dangerous and everyone in the car is at risk of getting arrested.
  • It is illegal to alter your driversí license or any other form of government identification.